About us: Where Strategy Meets Clarity
We’re a strategic advisory firm built for leaders navigating complex decisions and bold transitions. Grounded in insight and driven by intention, we help you turn uncertainty into opportunity.
About Us
Meet the Founder
Payton is a strategic advisor, growth partner, and thoughtful guide. She has a background spanning over 20 years of strategic leadership, brand positioning, and organizational development ranging from special operations in the U.S. military, the White House, Congress, entertainment and lifestyle marketing, Hollywood, and the growth phases of companies like Facebook/Meta and Bumble Inc. She is known for helping leaders find clarity in complexity.
She founded The Third Room after witnessing how often decision-makers lacked a space to think clearly—without noise, pressure, or distraction. Her approach is grounded in empathy, but also in strategy: every conversation is intentional, every plan built around your unique goals.
Clients often describe her as a trusted mirror and a catalyst for growth: someone who sees both the vision and the path to get there.
Media & Recognition
Payton Iheme’s work and leadership have been featured in Marie Claire (First Annual Power List), The New York Times, The Washington Post, Vogue, Travel Weekly, and MSNBC. She has spoken at Harvard Business School and serves as a mentor for Georgetown University Business School’s entrepreneurship program.
“Leadership can be lonely. My role is to walk beside you in those defining moments—helping you see clearly, decide wisely, and lead with confidence.”
Who We Are
Our Philosophy
At the heart of our work is the idea that strategy should be human, thoughtful, and intentional. We don’t believe in one-size-fits-all blueprints. We co-create solutions with you—rooted in insight, backed by experience, and tailored for real-life application. Our clients value not just what we deliver, but how we listen, challenge, and partner with them.
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Our Process
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Step 1
Connect Confidentially
Share your challenge, idea, or moment of transition.
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Step 2
Pause & Strategize
Together, we’ll unpack, explore, and refine—without rush or noise.
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Step 3
Move Forward with Clarity
Walk away with a clear path, grounded in thoughtful counsel.

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